a d.i.v.a must

a d.i.v.a must
to be d.i.v.a is to know who you are with confidence.."I AM...."

Friday, December 24, 2010

HAPPY HOLIDAYS!!!!!

Seasons Greetings Everyone!!!!
And the Grinch, with his Grinch-feet ice cold in the snow, stood puzzling and puzzling, how could it be so? It came without ribbons. It came without tags. It came without packages, boxes or bags. And he puzzled and puzzled 'till his puzzler was sore. Then the Grinch thought of something he hadn't before. What if Christmas, he thought, doesn't come from a store? What if Christmas, perhaps, means a little bit more?(Dr. Seuss)
Peace on earth will come to stay when we live Christmas everyday!!!!
Divas just want to wish you all a happy holiday filled with much LOVE, PEACE, and BLESSINGS!!!
Until Next Time!!!!!!!!!
Love, Laugh, Live!!!!

Wednesday, December 22, 2010

A Very Special Gift from my Boys!!! They were excited about making care packages to give to the homeless....

 Blessings...What Can People do Who Don't Have Money to Give?
 You would be surprised by what difference the smallest gift can make. Those gifts come in so many forms that there is literally no end to how much you can give even when you don't have any money to do it with.
Our Children are the future.... I was inspired to post this because some times we want and want for more, not taking into consideration how blessed we are to have what we do.
 Giving is its own reward. Giving has a dynamic to it that is simply ironic. The more you give, the more you gain. It's hard for some people to understand. But when you give of yourself, it comes back to you in so many ways. The more people who learn this wisdom, the better off this world will be.
Diva's Take the focus off of what you dont have and appreciate what you do have and give back...
Until Next Time Enjoy This Lovely Lovely Day and Stay Warm.... Love, Laugh, Live!!!

Friday, December 17, 2010

What is the Real Value In Giving? This holiday season... Lets not forget about the unfortunate; It Is Better To Give Than To Receive...

Giving That Last Beyond a Lifetime=Help
Nothing shows our greatness like the desire to HELP and the desire to SERVE!!

You will come to know that what happens today to be a sacrifice......



Will prove instead to be the greatest investment that you will ever make!!!
Diva's note: "Giving" can be as large or as small as our means allow, continually give continually gain... It is not about what you have to give this holiday season. Give help, and service to the less fortunate and receive the gift of giving which is PRICELESS!!!! Until Next Time...
 Love, Laugh, Live


Monday, December 13, 2010

Be Your Authentic Self!!! (authentic: not false or copied; genuine; real:)

Who are You?


Don't be anything but who you are Not who you or anyone else thinks you should be.... God has given you one face and you make yourself another "William Shakespeare"  At all times if possible Be....
Genuine = possessing the claimed or attributed character, quality, or origin; not counterfeit; authentic; real:  in order to be genuine we must demonstrate respect and kindness, be persistent with your graciousness and consistent with your kindness, even if the person doesn't deserve it....
always remember....
Every thing happens for a reason; people change so that you can learn to let go, things go wrong so that you appreciate them when they are right, you believe lies so eventually you learn to trust no one but you and your intuition, (which is usually 99.9% right, often we just fail to listen) sometimes good things fall apart so better things can come together "Marilyn Monroe"
Diva's Note: A little thing that makes a big difference is to always be....
Until Next Time...Love, Laugh, Live!!! Enjoy this Lovely Lovely Lovely Day and Stay Warm!!!

Thursday, December 9, 2010

Be Full of JOY!!!!

Joy is The Life of Us!!!


Life can be complicated but JOY is really pretty simple... instead of becoming part of the hating and complaining, find and keep JOY it is the beauty and options in your world...
Think about this enemies wants to steal your JOY! They will use any and everything to do just that! They want to pull you down emotionally, physically and to lower your standard of living by compromising your principles!

DIVA's  If you have let the shade be pulled down over your life and enemies have inserted, regrets, depression, anxiety, stress, eating disorders, compulsive behaviors, addictions, manipulation, and anything else in as your daily companions Let It GO!!!! Feeling Good is Good For You so Find JOY in all that you do touch it every chance that you get and share it as often as possible...
Enjoy this lovely lovely day and stay warm!!! Until next time Love, Laugh, Live!!!

Tuesday, December 7, 2010

Diamonds are Forever....

"never take someone for granted hold every person close to your heart cause you might wake up one day and realize that you've lost a diamond while you were too busy collecting stones"


Stones weight a lot
Stones = worries, hurt,  anger and pains... we get so caught up carrying these stones at times we overlook ourselves, and those around us that are DIAMONDS, we mistreat, not give focus, but instead look at faults, and imperfections, these are the stones that weigh us down.....
Put down your bag of stones (Pride, Selfishness, Ego) renew your self and look at the beauty of the DIAMONDS and not the flaws...
DIVA's!!!why carry a bag of stones, when DIAMONDS are in front of you...Lets Not Take Them For Granted!!! Enjoy this Lovely Lovely Day and Stay Warm.... Until Next Time... Love, Laugh, Live

Friday, December 3, 2010

A WOMANS WORTH!!!

A Woman is A Full Circle...
 Within her is the power to create, nurture, and transform. (Diane Mariechild)

Women have strengths that amaze men.We bear hardships and we carry burdens, but we hold happiness, love and joy.
We smile when we want to scream.
We sing when we want to cry.
We cry when we are happy, and laugh when we are nervous.
We fight for what we believe in.
We stand up to injustice.
We don’t take “no” for an answer when we believe there is a better solution.
We go without so our family can have.
We go to the doctor with a frightened friend.
We love unconditionally.
We cry when our children excel, and cheer when our friends get awards.
We are happy when we hear about a birth or a wedding.
Our hearts break when a friend dies.
We grieve at the loss of a family member, yet we are strong when we think there is no strength left.
We know that a hug and a kiss can heal a broken heart.
Women come in all shapes, sizes and colors.
We’ll drive, fly, walk, run or e-mail you to show how much we care about you.
The heart of a woman is what makes the world keep turning.
We bring joy, hope and love. We have compassion and ideas.
We give moral support to our family and friends.
Women have vital things to say and everything to give.
HOWEVER, IF THERE IS ONE FLAW IN WOMEN, IT IS THIS;
WE FORGET OUR WORTH AND HOW REMARKABLE WE TRULEY ARE!


 "The woman came from a man’s rib — not on his feet to be stepped on; not on his head to be superior, but on his side to be equal; under his arms to be protected and near his heart to be loved. Be very careful if you make a woman cry because God counts her tears. Every tear a woman sheds is equivalent of a man’s sacrifices in life.The Hebrew Talmud

DIVAS note... VALUE YOURSELF YOU ARE PRICELESS!!!!!  Until Next Time... Love, Laugh, Live... Have a Lovely Lovely Weekend!!

Tuesday, November 30, 2010

Do you know a selfish person or are you SELFISH???? Dont be Selfish!!!

Selfishness is your ugly side
Selfishness is humans fundamental defect.. Selfishness= devoted to or concerned excessively with ones self, self centered, self serving, and self important..(James 3:16) Where there is jealousy and selfishness, there is also disorder and every kind of evil. At the root of every problem is selfishness.. Whats in it for me?..
Divas We must learn to be selfless  and Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility consider others better than yourselves. look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others, and expect nothing in return.
(Luke 6:38) Give, and it will be given to you. A good measure, pressed down, shaken together and running over, will be poured into your lap. For with the measure you use, it will be measured to you"
Have a Lovely Lovely Lovely Day!!!! Until Next Time. Love, Laugh Live!!!!!

Thursday, November 25, 2010

Happy Thanksgivning!!!!!!!

Be Thankful
We have Soooo much to be thankful for everyday year round the list goes on, Today on this day of giving thanks embrace all that are around you and express gratitude for their presence and for sharing time together, if no one is around you embrace yourself and express gratitude for your being.....
Blessed are those who see
Everyday

The things we should be most thankful for
How many times
Are food, family, and shelter taken for granted?
Not intentionally but @ times life gets in the way
Knowing the value of everyday blessings
Fills our lives with joy
Understanding life is about the little things that
Leads us to realize that.....
 Happy Thanksgiving!!! Enjoy this Lovely Lovely Lovely Day!!!! until next time Love, Live Laugh!!!

Tuesday, November 23, 2010

As A Wo-Man Thinketh so is S-he..... Today's Healing Lesson

Positive Thinking can Change Your Life!!!
 Being Positive= Reduction in Stress, Living Longer, and Improving overall well being...
 Train your mind to think in terms of possible, remove anything negative from your words and thoughts, and always remain in the present moment...
Diva's No one wants to admit they are negative but, Reality is the mirror of your thoughts so....choose well what you put in front of your mirror....

Also Spread your positive energy to others, say and think positive things about them, your contribution to their positive experiences will have an impact on your eternal happiness....
Diva's THINKING POSITIVE CAN CHANGE YOUR LIFE....

Until Next Time: Love, Live, Laugh
Enjoy this Lovely Lovely Day!!!!!

Sunday, November 7, 2010

BE SURE TO SHOW OTHERS......

R-E-S-P-E-C-T!!!
Treat other how you want to be treated.... those who show respect will receive respect, to honor the worth of others is how one earns RESPECT... to do this you have to RESPECT yourself... RESPECT for self is the seed that gives growth to confidence....
DIVA's we must at ALL times RESPECT ourselves as well as others (# one rule) take mental note... Live, Love, Laugh.... Have a Loooooveeeeelllly Daaaaayyyyyy!!! until next time.... remember to always....

Tuesday, November 2, 2010

Amazing Grace.... How sweet that sounds!!!!

GRACE has many meanings... a sense of propriety and consideration of others, a disposition of kindness and compassion, the state of one who is under such divine influence, elegance and beauty of movement or expression, unmerited favor... beautiful to look at ..... D.I.V.A.s living under grace means having a humble spirit and being righteous.... Grace brings Peace, Joy and Happiness may we all  be blessed with amazing grace today and always  LOVE, LIVE, LAUGH have a lovely Daaaaaaaayyyyyyyyyyy lovely day lovely day!!!!!!!!  

Tuesday, October 26, 2010

The lies hurt and the TRUTH is acceptable.... Try Honesty!!!




Honesty..freedom from deceit or fraud
Honesty refers to a facet of moral character and denotes positive, virtuous attributes such as integrity, truthfulness, and straightforwardness along with the absence of lying, and cheating.

Divas  in order to be completely honest with anyone else you have to first be honest with yourself... the truth will set you free!!! Live, Love, Laugh have a lovely day!!!

Saturday, October 23, 2010

Strength....

Strength is being who you are no matter what...
STRENGTH = The ability to survive things, especially mentally. the ability to grow and learn from difficult experiences, and The ability to do the right thing even if it causes you pain

Monday, October 11, 2010

Ever Wonder....

Why???

 Why - for what purpose, reason, or cause, with what intention, justification or motive

WHY ASK WHY
there is no answer to that question
realizing the importance of providing what others need... such as ( love, and kindness, and even a smile)will make getting what you want much more likely to happen....
Diva's remember every thing happens for a reason.... 
LIVE, LOVE, LAUGH  

Friday, October 8, 2010

To fullfill a purpose you have to BELIEVE.....

To BELIEVE is to accept as true....
Do belive that everything happens for a reason.... weather good, bad, happy, or sad, All things work together for your good.... if you 
Diva's have confidence in the truth, the exsistence, and the reality of everything within you.... only if you believe in something (such as yourself and the spirit that resides within) can you act purposefully..... Enjoy the weekend Divas!!! its gonna be a lovely one... until next time Love, Laugh, Live!!!

Saturday, October 2, 2010

The WeekEnd (Saturday)= RELAXATION!!

Relaxation... physical or mental rest
The key to inner peace is to avoid worry, stress, and tension... the best way to do this is to relax...let go of the grip on everything and trust that the world will not stop if we take the time to relax!!!!
Diva's note :  RELAX = Physical and Mental Rest   A Diva to live by: JUST RELAAAX and be FREE!!!
Enjoy the Weekend Divas

Monday, September 27, 2010

Give Your Self Confidence......


What Matters Most is How Do you See Yourself

When others see you as shepard girls God sees you as QUEENS
DIVAS your most attractive feature is your SELF CONFIDENCE
CONFIDENCE = LOVING AND BELIEVING IN YOURSELF DIVAS enjoy and celebrate life today!

Tuesday, September 21, 2010

The Natural Timer PATIENCE.....


Good Things Come to Those Who Wait
Patience is freedom from expectaion of any kind, it is a natural place of being for your mind, and your body, and your soul. Free yourself to be in and of it.
Quote: "Adopt the pace of nature her secret is patience" (ralph waldo emerson) 
DIVAS have PATIENCE release and let go of all ego identification needs, or recognition from others and Now may the God of patience and comfort grant you to be likeminded toward one another, according to Christ Jesus,
Romans 15:5 (NKJV)

PATIENCE=VICTORY

Friday, September 17, 2010

Have a LOVELY Weekend DIVAS

Happy Friday!
Perfect is being without flaw or defect
It is in human nature to compete towards perfection...& the competition is never ending.................................
DIVAS perfect is DIVINE hense walking towards DIVINE = PERFECT and PERFECT = THE VERY BEST WE CAN DO... LOVE, LAUGH, LIVE and be HAPPY... ENJOY THE WEEKEND!!!

Tuesday, September 14, 2010

over the weekend I saw too many blank expressions, crossed eyes, and frowns on peoples faces.....

OFFER A SMILE
Q. Did you know that smiling is a biological response that increases the blood flow to the face and head which creates an increase in oxygen to the brain and actually makes a person feel better!

 A smile costs nothing but gives much. It enriches those who receive without making poorer those who give. It takes but a moment, but the memory of it sometimes lasts forever. None is so rich or mighty that he cannot get along without it and none is so poor that he cannot be made rich by it. Yet a smile cannot be bought, begged, borrowed, or stolen, for it is something that is of no value to anyone until it is given away. Some people are too tired to give you a smile.
DIVAS give them one of yours, as none needs a smile so much as he who has no more to give.....

Friday, September 10, 2010

What a Lovely Day DIVAS!!!!!!


Live, Laugh, Love

LOVELY= appealing to the emotions as well as the eye......
DIVA'S live your life at it's fullest, laugh at all the things that don't matter, love with all you have and more, animated.


LIVE, LOVE, LAUGH!!!!! Happy Friday!! and Enjoy The LOVELY Weekend DIVAS!!!

Wednesday, September 8, 2010

Love Is..... YOU!!!

Love is Life...Life is Love
Love is DIVA!!! Honor and consider yourself as well as others, their whole being, ideas, beliefs, feelings.....



LOVE IS LIGHT, SO SHINE BRIGHT DIVAS!!!!

Tuesday, September 7, 2010

Letting GO of Grudges and Bitterness .. The Power of Forgiveness...

Embrace Forgiveness

DIVA'S we must release any grudges or bitterness to be genuinely happy... Move away from your role as victim and give your self a gift(forgiveness).... Embracing forgiveness brings PEACE, HOPE, and JOY that helps you move on with your life, which is the key to happiness

Thursday, September 2, 2010

Its raining today DIVAS..... Looking forward to the rainbow!!!

From your inner BEING flows rivers of living water

Whatever your cross, whatever your pain,
there will always be sunshine, after the rain ….
Perhaps you may stumble, perhaps even fall,but God’s always ready, to answer your call …
He knows every heartache, sees every tear,
a word from His lips, can calm every fear …
Your sorrows may linger, throughout the night,
but suddenly vanish, in dawn’s early light …
The Savior is waiting, somewhere above,
to give you His grace, and send you His love…
Whatever your cross, whatever your pain…
God always sends rainbows…. after the rain…

Rain a great metaphor for life as a DIVA!... No promises for days without pain, sun without rain, there is a... gauranteed promise for a brighter day!! 
DIVA'S NOTE... RAIN = REFRESHING  enjoy the rain today!!

Wednesday, September 1, 2010

Every Good Tree Bears Good Fruit...You Shall be recognized by your fruits.. 
DIVA'S !!  fruit is what you are... not what you do... BEING vs. doing = you can do without being (perpetrate) but you cant really BE without doing also... fruit is beautiful and nourishing.. Fruit = your character (brought forth, and grown) fruit attracts and nourishes the weary traveler (weakened, sad, soul) so bless them with your fruit... Q.)HOW?
A.) D.I.V.A. = A perfectly formed and healthful piece of fruit in an appropriate and attractive package... good fruit rarely falls to the ground... All will reach to the top for the good fruit!! take note diva's

Monday, August 23, 2010

Wisdom, in the Book of Proverbs, is personified as a woman:

"Wisdom has built her house, she has set up her seven pillars. She has slaughtered her beasts, she has mixed her wine, she has also set her table." (Proverbs 9:1, 2)



Clearly, she is a woman of both strength and dignity, who by her own choice and initiative has established her personal identity (built her house) on the perfect righteousness of Christ (seven, the scriptural number of perfection; pillars, the firm foundation).


WO MAN(d.i.v.a.) I AM......

A UNIQUE  MODE OF LIFE AS AUTHENIC AND MEANINGFUL AS MALENESS, BUT DIFFERENT IN A WAY 
WHICH IS COMPLEMENTARY  TO THE OTHER HALF OF HUMANITY...